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1. Stop looking for those who are not looking for you.
2. Stop begging.
3. Stop saying more than necessary.
4. When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
5. Don't eat others' food more than they eat yours.
6. Reduce your visits to certain people, especially if they don't reciprocate.
7. Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
8. Stop entertaining gossip about others.
9. Think before you speak. Eighty percent of how people value you is based on what comes out of your mouth.
10. Always look your best. Dress the way you want to be addressed.
11. Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
12. Respect your time.
13. Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
14. Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
15. Be scarce sometimes.
16. Be a giver more than a receiver.
17. Don't go where you're not invited. And when invited, don't overstay your welcome.
18. Treat people exactly how you want to be treated.
19. Unless they owe you money, two call attempts are enough. If they value you, they will call you back.
20. Be good at what you do.